I grew up as one of the only Asian kids in my part of Sweden – present in the room, but rarely felt in it. I wasn’t the loudest. I wasn’t the most confident. I learned early what it’s like to be overlooked, interrupted, or politely ignored. Not just in dating, but in classrooms, locker rooms, job interviews, meetings, life.
I didn’t find the answer in quick tips or charisma hacks. I went deep into the science.
I earned two Master’s degrees – one in Behavioral Science, the other in Interpersonal Communication – and spent years testing ideas in the real world: thousands of conversations, countless breakdowns, constant refinement. I collaborated with professors, PhDs, and practitioners, then translated that research into something most people never get: a practical, teachable path to being genuinely likable.
Not performative. Not loud. Not “on.” Likable in the way that makes people relax, open up, and remember you, because they felt understood around you.
That’s the core of my work: tactical empathy and conversational presence. I teach you how to listen so people feel seen. How to mirror and label emotions without sounding mechanical. How to move from small talk to meaningful dialogue naturally. How to project quiet confidence that earns trust in boardrooms, creative teams, friendships, and yes, romantic life too.
I’ve worked with highly capable men who were sharp thinkers and strong performers who still struggled to leave a lasting impression. Introverts who avoided the spotlight because they thought connection required performance. Creatives who couldn’t get any interest or intrigue for their best ideas. Men and women who were respected on paper, but not felt in person.
What they all discovered is simple: You don’t need a new personality. You need a new way of hearing, holding, and guiding a conversation. And once you learn it, everything about how people respond to you changes.
My approach is direct and hands-on. We don’t just talk about conversations, we practice them. Live role-play. Specific feedback. Real scenarios over scripts – the honest work of building a presence people trust and are drawn to.
If you’ve ever walked away from a room knowing you had more to give, but didn’t know how to land it…
If you’re tired of being almost chosen, almost promoted, almost heard…
If you’ve started to believe you’re “just not that kind of person”…
I built this for you.
Likability isn’t luck. It’s learnable. And when you can make people feel understood, opportunities don’t just open. They look for you.